HOW FUCKING LAME DO YOU HAVE TO BE TO SEND NUDES OVER YOUR 3DS
how fucking lame do you have to be to not send nudes over your 3ds? they’re in 3d. they’re the nudes of the future, obviously. you’re moronic 2d nudes have gone out of style and nobody cares about your behind the times ass self. Get on my level, bitch.
This is my son, Chester, who is nearly 4. He was invited to his friend Chloe’s birthday party today, the theme was prince and princesses. He asked if he could go as Sleeping Beauty, so I bought him a dress and put a cute little clip in his hair.
We arrived at the party to the following comments from the adults present:
“Oh that is just cruel.”
"Why did you make him wear a dress?"
"Poor little man, what’s your mummy playing at?"
"He’s going to hate you when he grows up."
"No way I’d let my son dress like a girl."
The fact is, Chester is almost completely gender neutral. I let him wear what he wants, be it boys or girls clothes, and he plays with whatever toys he likes. This usually involves him holding tea parties while wearing his pink Minnie Mouse top, jeans and a tiara. The guests are more often than not a mixture of Winnie The Pooh characters, dinosaurs, Barbie, Dora and solders, and they’re usually transported in his favorite fire engine.
When my husband arrived at the party later on, he was subjected to endless ridicule from the other dad’s present about how I must keep his balls in my back pocket because otherwise he would have put his foot down and not allowed Chester out like that. Oh, and by the way, our other son dressed as Ariel. When my husband pointed out that the boys were happy, and the mother of the birthday child made a point of saying how wonderful she thought it was that we allowed them freedom of choice and expression, they then stopped talking about it to our faces and started muttering about us behind our backs.
Interestingly enough, not a single child said a word about their choice of costumes, other than to compliment Chester on his new dress.
(loving Elsa’s attention)
I’ve never been better. This is so nice. I wish it could be like this all the time.
I am sad because I was just reading about people asking Zachary Quinto questions about fanfiction and stuff and he seems really uncomfortable about it. He answered a question at FanExpo in a really kind and respectful way but made it pretty clear that he doesn’t quite like it, and it makes me want to re-evaluate the way I get so passionate about the fandom…. I feel bad for objectifying him and sometimes this kind of thing makes me realize I need to ground myself haha.
I would just feel really terrible if he were made uncomfortable by my actions and I feel bad for perpetuating anything that objectifies him. At the same time, I recognize that the person I imagine and obviously the character he plays are fiction and I completely separate them from him as a real person… but blah. Sorry for the rant I guess it just put things in perspective for me since I have been SO PASSIONATELY OBSESSED with him and Spock and with Star Trek since I saw it and yeah oops. okay bye sorry
does anyone else relate to this or anything?